WHAM BAM - THERE GO YOUR PANTALOONIES!

No you didn’t!! Ok. How long do you wait before having sex when you start seeing somebody? You’re probably not going to like this but the longer the better. No joke. I’ll say it again, relationships take time, and you should take yours (I will repeat this statement cause it’s important!). No matter what, everyone is on their best behaviour at the beginning. I couldn’t even begin to count the articles and interviews with men that have them confessing they respect a woman more when she waits. And they WANT to be able to respect you. When you wait it sends a message. One important message it sends is you’re not a slut! They hate admitting to appreciating the waiting bit cause after all, they want to get laid! But it’s the truth. And you know how much better you’re going to feel if after a couple of weeks and a few dates it’s not really working out, you can console yourself with the knowledge ‘at least I didn’t boink him!’ If you’re somebody who prefers numbers then fine. No sex before date 10. I’m not sure which slag came up with the ‘3 dates’ gig….but she was getting paid by the hour. YES you can do other stuff…..ABOVE the waist! Be careful though, it’s awfully easy to end up in the ‘just the tip’ game then it’s too late. Add alcohol and you’re Mae West. Think about it this way, if you really think there’s a chance of something serious with the guy, then don’t you owe it to both of you to actually give it that chance? If you know sure as shinola that there isn’t a snowball’s hope in Hell of you and him going the distance – then by all means, off with your knickers! BUT REMEMBER: NO GLOVE NO LOVE!!! (I’m referring to safe sex in case you weren’t sure)